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February 12, 2001


Valentine's Day Disappointment Could Land You In The Courtroom

Breaking Up Isn't The Worst Thing That Could
Happen To You This Valentine's Day



San Diego, CA -  This Valentine's Day you'd probably like to be anywhere but in a courtroom. However, certain people will undoubtedly give the wrong gift, recite a bad poem, or cancel dinner plans with their significant others. And some unlucky individuals could hear "See you in court!" after breaking such a romantic rule.

"If you don't have a date this Valentine's Day, you might be better off," said Andy Kotner, President of San Diego CALA. "A failed romantic "courtship" could land you in the courtroom instead of stranded at the altar."

A few examples:

  • Give Me Back My Ring - The Courts Rule Both Ways

After his ex-fiancé broke off their engagement, a Maryland State Trooper sued he woman because she refused to return the $5,000 engagement ring.  The woman claimed the ring was a gift and she was not obligated to return it. The man testified that the couple had broken up six times during their engagement. The court agreed with the woman and let her keep the ring.  - "Ex-fiancé to appeal in ring lawsuit," The Herald Mail, Sept. 30,1999

Last April, a man sued his ex-fiancé, seeking return of the engagement ring he had given his girlfriend 10 years prior, or payment of $14,980, the ring's appraisal value, plus punitive damages. The court sided with the man. One legal scholar, who studies ring-return cases, noted that courts have fallen into a pattern in which men are permitted to recover engagement rings or their worth, but women often have no recovery method for emotional turmoil, performing household tasks and for wedding planning.  -"Ex-Fiancé Sues to Get Back Diamond Ring," The Legal Intelligencer Suburban Edition, April 26, 2000

  • Fake Engagement Ring and Fake Hair Spell Trouble for Groom

After three months of unblissful marriage, two Michigan newlyweds filed for divorce and asked a jury to decide if the bride should receive payment from the groom for claims that he gave her a fake diamond engagement ring and spent their wedding money on personal hair transplants.  - "Woman claims new husband used wedding money for hair transplants," Associated Press, October 6, 2000

  • Take the Car and Run

After her ex-boyfriend bought a car that she liked, a woman in Oregon made a deal with the man that she would date him again, and even promised marriage, if he signed over the title to his Toyota 4Runner to her. The man agreed to her terms; so the woman took his car and then broke up with him four days later. The ex-girlfriend refused to return the car claiming, "he did not deserve it." So the man sued the woman for the car or its cash value.  - "Oregon's Unusual Lawsuits," The Oregonian, February 25, 1999 

"Have a wonderful Valentine's Day, but if your special day doesn't work out, remember to take personal responsibility for your actions. The line between love and litigation is one you don't want to cross," commented Kotner.

San Diego County CALA is a non-profit, grassroots public education organization. Its mission is to inform consumers about the costs of lawsuit abuse and ensure the legal system is used for justice, not greed.

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